Good girl dating a bad boy
We begin to ask the world “what if I don’t feel like being a classy lady, anymore?” Women get an itch to rebel and go against the grain and even our better judgment.The fuel and motivation behind a woman’s decision to become involved with a bad boy most often falls into one of the following scenarios.Every woman goes through a phase in which they become tired of the expectations and standards attached to being a girl.Perhaps thinking they grow up to be bad guys, and bad guys are bad for a relationship. Just maybe your marriage is better when your husband is the “bad guy.” I’ve been both the bad guy and the good guy in my marriage.And I have to admit, being the bad guy is much easier than being the good guy.The bad boy is always there to swoop us up and help us out with this endeavor.A fling with a bad boy does not stem from our innate and biological desire to meet the father of our children; that will come later. The bad boy serves to make us feel free-spirited, adventurous and exciting.
I know I am guilty and, more than likely, so is the next girl.We, as women, see it as our duty to transform him, helping him grow and meet his potential.We perform this attempt at a transformation with several intentions in mind.If we serve as the catalyst for the transformation from a bad boy to a good guy, it’s true love. One of the curses of being human is that even if we are conscious of the fact that we want something solely because it is “off-limits” to us, we will still continue to pursue it. They avoid commitment, responsibility, devotion; all of the qualities necessary to be a good boyfriend. Every girl will do this at least once in their lifetime and will most likely end up with a broken heart and a great story. Sometimes, predictability can just get down-right boring. They have this “I don’t give a damn” mentality and are completely unreliable and unpredictable.
Women should do the logical thing and date the guy that is always respectful, never engages in illegal activity, irons his clothes, calls his mom each week, and maintains a respectable job. An outrageous ego almost always accompanies a bad boy. Every girl reaches a point when she needs to spice things up. We interpret these qualities as mysterious and intriguing, having the strong desire to find out what makes them tick. However, that most certainly doesn’t mean that we won’t give it our best shot.First, we gain satisfaction from feeling as though we have helped better and improve another person.